Monday 27 May 2013

Personal Fun & Interesting


Everyone wants to be attractive, to be the center of attention, well-known and admired by many people. Be interesting and fun is the obsession most people. Interesting and fun covers physical aspects (physical) and non-physical (include: emotional, personality and personal integrity). Many people are beautiful, handsome, clever and rich but can not be categorized as people who are interesting and fun because of something lacking in them.

People who are interesting and fun to make people like her and always wanted to be close and would like to see it and want to interact with it. People who have fun like a charm and has a wealth of invaluable.

In contrast to the beauty and ingenuity which essentially is something given by God (given), interesting and fun is something that can be learned and stimulated in every activity of our daily lives (daily activity).
For that there are some tips that should be followed and done if we want to have an interesting personality and fun.

The tips are as follows:

1. Manners (politeness)
Always polite and kind to others cause us to be interesting and fun for the other person. When met with anyone we should be "warm" and friendly to him. Scolds sweet and warm greetings, like: Hello ... what khabar, Good Morning ..., Happy Day ..., etc. should always we say complete with facial expressions and body language that reflects a sincere and represent it all. On people for the first time we know we should say: "I am delighted to see you ..., When-when we talk again ..., etc., etc..

People who want to look attractive, fun and noticed people are the ones never hurt and hurt and feelings of others. When the liver is injured it will be hard pressed to be able to recover in a short time all her pain may even turn into a fire smoldering resentment that could explode at any time like a neutron bomb that powerful.

2. Hospitality (HOSPITALITY)
The principle of "Touch HIS HEART", and understood very well be held to cause IMPRESSIONS INTERESTING and FUN on us.

SOME THINGS NEED practiced in connection with Manners and hospitality:

Welcome the Sapa scolds People: "There is no thing as comfortable as speeches given by others with a sincere tone and carefree".

Smile To the People: "There are 72 muscles to frown necessary, but it takes only 14 muscles to smile fruit".

Call people by name: "Music is the most melodic and serene in the ears is the sound of his own name anyone ...".
Be Friendly: "If you want friends, be friendly ..."

THE VALUES OF SMILE:

It costs nothing but create much.
It enriches those who receive without impoverishing those who give.
It happens in a flash but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.
None are so rich that they can along without it, and none are so poor but are richer for a smile.
It create happiness at home, foster goodwill in a business and is the countersign of friends.
Yet it can not be bought, begged, Borrowed or stolen, for it is something that is no Earthly good to anybody till it is given away!
And if it ever happens that some people should be too tired to give you a smile, why not leave one of yours?
For nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none left to give.

3. RESPECT (respectfull)
If we treat others as we want diperlakuakn may cause tension, because other people may not like the way we are. Conversely, if we treat others in the way they want to be treated then essentially we have the flexibility to capture the essence of our true self.

Respect for others, means learning to treat people differently according to their confidence levels and needs rather than according to the needs and levels of confidence in ourselves. This could lead to moral understanding and acceptance among individuals and groups. It also shows one's PERSONAL INTEGRITY.

Respect to others, may be more easily understood as: "the search for common interests shared and then worked together to achieve win-win outcomes (win-win)".

4. FULL ATTENTION (ATTENTIVE)
Mindfulness means being aware of "what's going on in our environment". Attentive attitude associated with the ability to read a situation which implied (implicit). It can start from as simple as paying attention to when a person feels bored and feel that now is not the time to convey our ideas.

Being considerate means emptying ourselves of the ideas ourselves subjectively (able to see from the glass eyes of others) and open horizons and minds to want to see things outside ourselves.

Caring person also knows when to act and when he can not act. People belonging attentive will play in terms of: trends, patterns, variations and opportunities. Caring person would have a good open attitude toward incoming information, ideas or suggestions from others....

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